If you are dating a gamer then you will know exactly what I mean when I say, dating a gamer is like having a puppy, haha no I’m kidding but it’s not as bad as most people think or as most people make it out to be. I love my gamer boyfriend to death and back but I must be honest, it took some time to get use to.
These are my tips for dating a gamer.
1. You have to get use to being alone on Friday nights.
(no not every Friday night)
There will come a time where the boys will want to have a boys night and the problem is that time will probably come more than what we would like to admit, but you know what. Give it to him. At least he is not out somewhere causing shit wherever he goes(no I’m not saying all boys cause shit but lets be honest we all know how it goes when guys go out together. THE SECRET TO BEING OKAY WITH THIS BOYS TIME EVERY SECOND FRIDAY IS TO USE THAT TIME FOR YOURSELF. Go out and see your girls. Read that book that you never get time for. Whatever you want to do. This is your time.
2. You will have to raise your voice, and put your foot down.
Trust me. There will come a time where you have had enough “me time” to last you for a life time. This is the time to put your foot down and tell him exactly what you want from him. Remember he is a guy and they can’t smell what you want. So tell him what you want and how you want it. Don’t get angry at him if he is use to you being okay with it and all of a sudden you are not anymore.
3. No matter how nerdy he is. Treat him like a man. Treat him like your man.
A lot of woman feel that when they are dating a GAMER that he should feel that he is the luckiest guy in the world for dating you. This is because the world classifies him as a nerd. Yes you should feel appreciated. No you are not the only girlfriend he will ever have. It is not like the the big bang theory where he will worship the very ground that you walk on. So treat him with respect and the love that he deserves. Don’t talk down to him or think he is worth less because he might be nerdy. Remember gamers also have feelings.
4. Respect his gaming.
You might like to paint or lay on the couch or have the weirdest hobby on earth. You will not like it if people keep making fun of the very thing you love so much. Don’t do the same to him. He enjoys gaming. It is his hobby and what he enjoys doing when he has had enough of the world.
5. Find out what it is he loves so much and try to enjoy this with him.
There is nothing better than the person you love most in the world doing the things you love most in the world with you. Take one night and make it game night. Even if you don’t know the game. Ask him to teach you and really be into it. It will bring out a side of him that will make you fall in love with him even more and it will make the bond you have even stronger.
Be patient and love your gamer.
What’s your tips for dating a gamer???
These are my tips for dating a gamer.
1. You have to get use to being alone on Friday nights.
(no not every Friday night)
There will come a time where the boys will want to have a boys night and the problem is that time will probably come more than what we would like to admit, but you know what. Give it to him. At least he is not out somewhere causing shit wherever he goes(no I’m not saying all boys cause shit but lets be honest we all know how it goes when guys go out together. THE SECRET TO BEING OKAY WITH THIS BOYS TIME EVERY SECOND FRIDAY IS TO USE THAT TIME FOR YOURSELF. Go out and see your girls. Read that book that you never get time for. Whatever you want to do. This is your time.
2. You will have to raise your voice, and put your foot down.
Trust me. There will come a time where you have had enough “me time” to last you for a life time. This is the time to put your foot down and tell him exactly what you want from him. Remember he is a guy and they can’t smell what you want. So tell him what you want and how you want it. Don’t get angry at him if he is use to you being okay with it and all of a sudden you are not anymore.
3. No matter how nerdy he is. Treat him like a man. Treat him like your man.
A lot of woman feel that when they are dating a GAMER that he should feel that he is the luckiest guy in the world for dating you. This is because the world classifies him as a nerd. Yes you should feel appreciated. No you are not the only girlfriend he will ever have. It is not like the the big bang theory where he will worship the very ground that you walk on. So treat him with respect and the love that he deserves. Don’t talk down to him or think he is worth less because he might be nerdy. Remember gamers also have feelings.
4. Respect his gaming.
You might like to paint or lay on the couch or have the weirdest hobby on earth. You will not like it if people keep making fun of the very thing you love so much. Don’t do the same to him. He enjoys gaming. It is his hobby and what he enjoys doing when he has had enough of the world.
5. Find out what it is he loves so much and try to enjoy this with him.
There is nothing better than the person you love most in the world doing the things you love most in the world with you. Take one night and make it game night. Even if you don’t know the game. Ask him to teach you and really be into it. It will bring out a side of him that will make you fall in love with him even more and it will make the bond you have even stronger.
Be patient and love your gamer.
What’s your tips for dating a gamer???